Would you use the same wedding ceremony song as your separated parents?

My mom and Dad separated over 12 years ago. I was thinking of using the same song that was played at their wedding ceremony in 1984...both parents say they don't mind..has anyone else done this?

Would you use the same wedding ceremony song as your separated parents?
i wouldn't want to dance to a song that my seperated parents danced to.
Reply:It sounds like a good idea, but with so many beautiful songs available to you both, my suggestion would be to find a song that is truly yours and expresses the unique feelings you and your fiance' share together.





I always refer my brides to the following 2 websites when they are looking for the perfect song. It details each category and samples of the songs to listen to.





http://www.weddingwire.com/shared/Weddin...





http://www.wedalert.com/songs/index.asp








Please feel free to contact me for any other assistance you may need with your wedding =)





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Reply:My parents aren't separated, but I don't think it really matters because you should be able to play what you want at YOUR wedding.


I would use the song that my parents used but it's in Chinese, and my girl friend...err fiance..is American and she'd rather have a quick wedding.
Reply:People do it. Just b/c they didnt last doesnt mean your relationship wont! If you like the song then use it it is YOUR day!
Reply:If they both say it's okay, then do it. There are the only people who might be offended, and they have given you their blessing.
Reply:mmmmmmm... to tell you the truth i don't know of someone that has done that. but i wouldn't.. well it depends of the song.. but still i think there are a lot of song to choose from.. but if you really want that one, then go for it!!! it's your wedding...
Reply:No, cuz i'm not married. But i don't think it would be a bad thing. Especially if you and your fiance like the song. And momand dad approve.





Congratz on the wedding, hope is doesn't turn out like your parents'
Reply:If you like the song and it doesn't offend your parents, go for it.


It's your wedding.
Reply:If you and your fiance like the song, and your parents are OK with it, there's nothing stopping you from using it. Most of the people at your wedding will not have attended your parents' wedding and those who did attend probably won't remember the song.
Reply:I don't think it would be a good omen. If you don't believe in any thing like that, than go for it, if you really like the song. IF it is for sentimental reasons...kinda misplaced.





I am sure you can find a song that is just for you two.





Ask your fiance. see what they think
Reply:I think that would be uncomfortable for them, even if they don't want to say anything. Does the song have special meaning to you and your fiance?
Reply:My parents are separated too! I would not use my parent's wedding ceremony song if they are separated. It really is something that YOU have to think over. =)
Reply:yes,


just because they didn't last doesn't mean you and your hubby won't.


The song meant something to them at the time and it should mean alot to you also, don't just use it because it was their song.